There are three crowns. The crown of Torah
The crown of priesthood, and the crown of kingship.
But the crown of a good name excels them all.
(Ethics of the Fathers 4:17)
Before too much time passes, and your children are officially 5th graders, and off to camp for the summer, I wanted to take one minute to thank you for welcoming me into your family, and allowing me to learn with your children. As the year quickly came to an end, I wanted one to share one more life lesson. To end the year, our students were asked to think about the many lessons we learned this year, and the importance of building a relationship with others by following the commandments. These relationships are nurtured through Jewish values, and our commitment to making the world a better place. We shared our thoughts and ideas about our reputations, and how others view us. We also talked about what we want others to say about us, and how we are the gatekeepers to our legacy.
We twisted and turned the ideas in this phrase, and talked about what the three crowns were. Were they really crowns, or were they just symbols for royalty or riches? After some poking and prodding, we thought about how one receives these crowns. The crown of Torah, priesthood and kingship are all titles bestowed upon someone with little rhyme or reason. Someone may have a lot of money or a famous family, and subsequently, they are looked to as heroes. However, the crown of a good name exceeds all the other crowns because a good name must be earned.
Students were asked to think about the many ways we earn our good name. We talked about what our teachers, neighbors, friends, and family think of us, and how important it is to protect our name. Students created name posters with their personality traits, and rest assured, many do indeed have a good name. Our students see themselves as funny, happy, good, nice, kind, and respectful. They are empathetic, brave, smart, athletic, special, and strong. Most importantly, they are Super Heroes in their own right, and each has earned their good name.
By now you probably know we wrote Mother's Day wishes to end the year, keeping in mind that everyday in Mother's Day when you are Jewish. Students were asked to think about the things they appreciate about you, and create their own Eishet Chayil Blessing, the traditional blessing a family sings to their mother every Shabbat. As a little gift, students tied tzitzit, as reminder to always follow the commandments.
Thank you thank you for welcoming me into you Shaarey Zedek family. It has been a pleasure getting to know you and your children, and I look forward to seeing you next year. Finally, thank you for the most generous end of the year gifts. I truly appreciate your kindness.
Enjoy the Shavuot Holiday, and have a wonderful, safe summer, Barbara
